Corrin Voeller is a marriage therapist, speaker and online educator from Minnesota. In her practice, she focuses on couples considering divorce. “Let’s talk about the difference between ‘active responsibility’ and ‘passive responsibility,'” she began in a post published in 2021, which resurfaced on the app this week. “Active responsibility would be you looking around the house for things you could do and taking responsibility for the things that need to happen within the house,” she explained. Alternatively, “passive responsibility would be being available to help, but waiting for somebody to tell you what needs to be done,” she continued. What women really want is someone “who is actively responsible for the house and for the children and not waiting for their wife to tell them what to do,” she said.
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